The unnecessary necessity

The most stable thing is that you are always unstable with your friends.

A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil; but it needs a little mulch of letters and phone calls and small, silly presents every so often – just to save it from drying out completely.
Pam Brown. 


It’s not like you can pick up a thing and store it up for life. while

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art… It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival.

C.S. Lewis


You can choose to let it go as like putting down a burden, or you can keep on watering it until one day it blooms. But often too much water kills more plant than too little water. And to be a good gardener, you have to think and act for the plant, like

My best friend is the man who in wishing me well wishes it for my sake.
Aristotle

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Morocco


Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil.

Baltasar Gracian


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Cairo, Egypt


Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.

Albert Camus


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San Cristobel, Mexico
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San Cristolbel, Mexico
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Venice, Italy
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Paris, France


A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity

Proverbs


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Phnom Pehn, Cambodia
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Medellin, Colombia
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Barcelona, Spain


The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing, not curing… that is a friend who cares.

Henri Nouwen


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Tectouan, Morocco
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fatehpur-sikri, India
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Tectouan, Morocco
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Porto, Portugal
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Jaipur, India
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Tibet


Friends are born, not made

Henry Adams


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Jaisalmer, India


Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the never needing to say is what counts.

Margaret Lee Runbeck


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San Sebastian, Spain
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Phnom Phen, Cambodia
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Cairo, Egypt


Friendship is one mind in two bodies.

Mencius


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Cairo Egypt
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Petra, Jordan
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Mexico City, Mexico


It takes a long time to grow an old friend.

John Leonard


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Porto, Portugal

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